Never Do This with Chopsticks in Japan

What chopstick manners reveal about food, death, and the Japanese table

Sushi, ramen, tempura, katsu. Today, these Japanese foods are enjoyed around the world. Many of you may have eaten them in Japan, or at a Japanese restaurant. When you did, did you pick up a pair of chopsticks?

In situations where it would be much easier to use a fork, it makes Japanese people happy when someone chooses to use chopsticks. It shows a willingness to experience Japanese food culture.

It is natural to feel unsure about how to hold chopsticks. You may not be able to pick up food well, and you may drop something. Even among Japanese people, there are differences in how chopsticks are held. Being good or bad at using chopsticks is not the issue. However, there are some manners that I truly hope you will avoid. A single movement can remind people in Japan of offerings for the dead or funeral customs.

This time, we will look at the history and value of chopsticks, and the manners worth knowing at the Japanese table.